How old are you? (polite)
How old are you? (standard)
I am 20 years old.
I am 30 years old.
What year were you born?
I was born in '90.
We are the same age.
You are older than me (male to older male).
You are older than me (male to older female).
I am younger.
When is your birthday?
My birthday is today.
You look young for your age.
You look mature for your age.
Please speak comfortably (informally).
In many Western societies, asking someone about their age shortly after meeting them is often considered a social faux pas, or at the very least, slightly impolite or intrusive. In South Korea, however, determining someone's age is an absolute social necessity and serves as the fundamental compass for all human interaction. The Korean language and its strict social hierarchy are entirely dictated by age (나이 - Nai). To know whether they should treat you as a respected senior, a junior, or a friend of the exact same age (동갑 - Donggap), Koreans must know how old you are. Therefore, the question 몇 년생이세요? (Myeon nyeonsaengiseyo? - "What year were you born?") is incredibly common and usually asked within the first few minutes of a conversation. Historically, the country used the "Korean Age" system, where a baby is considered one year old at birth and ages a year every January 1st, regardless of their actual birthday. Although the government officially switched to the international age system for administrative and legal purposes recently, deep-rooted cultural habits die hard, and the birth year remains the ultimate social equalizer. If someone is even one year older than you, you are strictly expected to use polite, formal language (존댓말 - Jondaetmal) and treat them with clear deference. You will also use specific familial titles based on gender and age differences, such as 오빠 (Oppa) or 형 (Hyung) for older brothers/friends, and 언니 (Unni) or 누나 (Nuna) for older sisters/friends. Understanding this dynamic is crucial for any visitor or expatriate. You should never be offended or taken aback if a local asks your age right away; they are not being nosy, they are simply trying to figure out the correct and most respectful way to address you!
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